Finding A Sexting Partner On General Dating Apps Like Match, Okcupid, Zoosk...


Sexting is the act of messaging about sexual acts, desires, and roleplaying. In the age of the cell phone that never turns off, it is one of the most popular sexual activities. People also enjoy the ability to have just about any kind of experience, even one that you might not be able to enjoy in person. Where do you find a sexting partner?

If you don't want to sign up on those sexting sites, one of the places that you can find sexting partners is general dating apps. But these apps aren't only populated with those looking to sext. To help you use dating apps like Match, Okcupid or Zoosk to find a sexting partner, we have created a brief guide.

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Start With Your Profile Picture

Someone with a profile picture on any dating app comes off as a creep or a fake. Capturing the perfect profile picture will make people more interested in you physically, something that is likely to attract a sexting partner. The picture should show a good amount of your body and be of you in a natural setting. Don't try to use anything that looks too much like you are a model, unless of course, you are.

An important note is that websites like Match, Okcupid and Zoosk often expect users to have their face included in pictures. You can try to exclude your face but it will likely be noticed.

Craft An Interesting Profile

After your profile picture, people are going to judge you by your written profile. Even if you are looking to sext, a good profile can make a big difference. Talk about what you like to do, what kind of person you are, and what you like in a partner.

Don't be afraid to show something wrong about yourself. People don't want to sext or date someone that thinks they are perfect. The truth is, none of us are perfect.

Try to break your profile down into shorter paragraphs so that your content is readable. Two to three sentences is a good amount. No one wants to read something that feels like an essay if they are looking for something sexy.

Read Profiles First

Before you send any messages you should be reading other people's profiles. Messaging everyone that you see on the dating app won't go over well. Instead, you should be reading every person's profile.

A good sexting relationship involves people who enjoy each other's likes and dislikes. You have to find something attractive about the person to be attracted to them. That comes from reading a profile.

Reading other people's profiles gives you an added benefit. It allows you to get an idea of how to write your own. The more profiles that you read, the better you will be able to tweak yours to make the most out of it.

The idea of reading someone's profile first will come in importance in the next section too.

Send A Killer First Message

The first thing that you need to know about any dating site is that there are two messages that will turn away a potential partner quicker than any others. One such message is the simple hello. A quick and basic message isn't going to catch anyone's attention. More often than not it will be ignored.

More importantly, a message about sexting will turn potential sexual partners away. Sexual content should not be included in the first message. It is even something that you might want to avoid for the first few messages.

Take the first message and use it to introduce yourself and find something in common. Most importantly, take something that you read in the person's profile and include it in your message. You can do this in any number of ways from sharing interest to asking a question.

After you have exchanged a few messages, then you can bring up the topic of where you want to go. That includes whether you want to sext or not.

Some experts will say that you can't use a traditional dating site to find a sexting partner but that isn't true. Using these tips you can setup a good sexting relationship. It doesn't even involve too much work. Especially since once you have set up a profile on one site, it can be used on others.