Tips To Heighten The Pleasure Of Sexting


The latest trend in the sexual world is sexting. Dirty talking over text messages and even sending pictures. For a lot of us, sexting is something new. Something that we haven't tried before. That doesn't mean that you need to go into blindly.

Knowing some of the best tips for sexting will help to prepare you for the level of enjoyment that you desire. We have taken some of the best tips and prepared them for you. Continue reading to find them.

Go Slow

Unless there is something pulling your attention away from sexting, go slow. There is no rush. No need to cum right away. Spend time building up the mood and enjoying the experience.

This is especially true if you are focusing solely on roleplaying. You don't want to go straight to talking about penetration. Making out, touching, that kind of thing can help to get you started.

Chances are that both parties aren't horny right off the bat, starting slow also helps with this. You need to turn on your partner somehow, and going straight into sex may get you off, but not them. Both parties enjoying the experience means that you will get the chance to sext again.

Spend Time On Both Of You

Yes, the obvious part of sexting is talking about what you enjoy. The only way to truly enjoy sexting is if both parties are enjoying themselves. That means that you need to spend time on areas that you both enjoy.

If you don't know what you enjoy or if your partner doesn't, spend some time exploring different areas. It shouldn't be too hard to find at least one thing that you enjoy.

Turn Off Read Receipts

Read receipts build up anxiety when you are trying to have a fun time. This anxiety can mess with the mood and distract you. Your partner could be trying to build up tension and surprise but all you will be focused on is whether they are reading your message or not.

Confidence Is Good

Sometimes partners love when you are shy in person. It can create enjoyment. Not over texting. Sexting requires you to have confidence. Fortunately, you don't need to have experience to make your texts sound good. Just choose your words properly and the confidence will come with that.

The more that you sext, the higher your confidence level will become. Eventually you will be naturally confident.

Try New Things

Have you ever wanted to live out your fantasy? Sexting is a great way to role play out the various things that you want to try. While it may not be the same as really doing them, but you will get an enjoyable thrill from it still.

Remember That Spelling And Grammar Still Matter

Sexting is texting right? You can just use abbreviations and typos are fine, right? Wrong. Sexting is about building up a mood and the only way to do that is to convey an enjoyable message. That means checking your grammar and spelling is incredibly important.

The last thing you want to do is have a key word spelled wrong and it change the whole meaning of the conversation.

Don't Spend The Whole Time Asking Questions

Asking questions about what position your partner wants or what they want next is tempting. Don't though. Spending a lot of your time asking questions means that you're spending less time getting each other horny and more time with a one track mind.

Be Careful With Pictures

You may be tempted to send pictures during sexting and that is fine, but you want to make sure that you trust the person first. Pictures can be used as blackmail or outright posted on the internet. Even if you trust the person, it is wise to make sure that you leave out your face. This helps to ensure your privacy.

Take each one of these tips and you will enjoy your sexting even more than you already are. Each tip will help you grow (pun intended) and enjoy yourself more. If you have something that you found that works great during sexting, make sure to let us know in the comments down below.